Turbulent to Assertive: Is Change Actually Possible?

What happens when your personality assessment reveals you’re the turbulent type? Constant self-doubt, sensitivity to stress, and endless comparison to others can feel exhausting. Yet those with turbulent traits often wonder if they’re stuck with these patterns or if genuine transformation is possible.

Turbulent types can develop assertive qualities while retaining their strengths. The path involves targeted skill development, cognitive reframing, and strategic practice. Research from 16 Personalities demonstrates that while core traits show stability, identity dimensions like turbulence versus assertiveness demonstrate flexibility based on deliberate practice, life experiences, and environmental changes. Success requires working with your natural tendencies instead of fighting against them.

Understanding Turbulent vs. Assertive Identity Traits

The identity dimension in personality theory captures how confidently we approach our abilities and decisions. Assertive individuals maintain even-tempered composure, resist stress naturally, and move forward without excessive worry. They learn from mistakes without dwelling on regrets.

Turbulent types experience the opposite tendencies. They’re self-conscious perfectionists driven by concern about their performance and others’ perceptions. During my agency years, I watched this dynamic play out repeatedly during campaign presentations. Some leaders delivered pitches with unwavering confidence even when the strategy had clear holes. Others prepared exhaustively, anticipated every objection, and still questioned their readiness.

Neither approach guaranteed success. The confident presenters sometimes crashed when clients caught their oversights. The anxious ones occasionally froze despite superior preparation. What mattered was finding balance between these extremes.

Data from the 16 Personalities research team reveals that approximately 81% of turbulent types worry about others’ perceptions, compared to just 34% of assertive types. This sensitivity drives them to notice problems early and push themselves toward improvement. It also creates vulnerability to criticism and regret.

The key insight here? These traits exist on a spectrum, not as fixed boxes. Someone with turbulent tendencies can develop more assertive qualities without losing the detailed awareness that makes this type effective.

The Science Behind Personal Growth and Identity Change

Personality psychology has historically treated core traits as relatively stable. Recent research challenges this assumption, particularly regarding identity dimensions like assertiveness and turbulence.

According to Personality Junkie’s analysis, the turbulent-assertive dimension correlates with the Big Five trait of neuroticism. Unlike core preferences such as introversion or thinking styles, neuroticism shows greater flexibility based on life experiences, deliberate practice, and environmental changes.

Neuroplasticity Supports Behavioral Change

The brain’s capacity to form new neural pathways means repeated behaviors eventually become automatic. Cognitive-behavioral approaches leverage this principle by helping individuals practice assertive responses until they require less conscious effort. Studies published in Mental Health America’s research on assertiveness demonstrate that structured practice produces lasting changes in communication patterns and self-confidence levels.

A comprehensive review by Positive Psychology researchers found that assertiveness training produces measurable improvements in self-esteem, stress management, and emotional regulation. These programs work by addressing three components simultaneously: beliefs about self-worth, communication skills, and behavioral practice.

One Fortune 500 client I worked with brought me in to help develop emerging leaders who struggled with executive presence. Most of these talented professionals scored as turbulent on personality assessments. They excelled at analysis and preparation but hesitated during critical moments requiring confident decision-making.

The transformation process focused on specific scenarios where they needed to project certainty. We didn’t try to eliminate their careful nature. Instead, we built frameworks that channeled their thorough preparation into confident delivery. Six months later, several had earned promotions based partly on their newfound executive presence.

Leveraging Turbulent Strengths During Transformation

Attempting to suppress turbulent qualities entirely leads to frustration and inauthenticity. The more effective approach involves recognizing these traits as assets that need redirection rather than elimination.

Perfectionism Becomes Preparation

Turbulent types naturally scan for potential problems. This tendency causes anxiety when it spirals into catastrophizing. Redirected properly, it becomes thorough risk assessment.

Consider how you might prepare for a difficult conversation with your manager. An assertive type might outline key points and trust their ability to respond in the moment. A turbulent type anticipates every possible objection, prepares supporting data, and rehearses responses.

The turbulent approach requires more effort but often produces superior outcomes. The trick lies in recognizing when preparation crosses into counterproductive worry. Set specific limits: spend 90 minutes preparing, then commit to the conversation regardless of lingering concerns.

Research from a study published in PMC examining assertiveness training effects found that participants who learned to channel anxiety into structured preparation showed greater confidence gains than those who tried to eliminate anxiety altogether.

Self-Doubt Drives Growth

Assertive types rarely question their competence, which can lead to stagnation. Turbulent individuals constantly evaluate themselves, asking if they could improve. This creates discomfort but also fuels development.

The goal isn’t eliminating self-reflection. It’s changing the questions you ask. Instead of “Am I good enough?” ask “What specific skill would make me more effective?” Instead of “What if I fail?” ask “What would I learn from that outcome?”

This reframing transformed my own leadership approach. Early in my career, I’d agonize over every decision, convinced each choice could derail projects worth millions. Eventually I realized that my thorough analysis actually gave me better judgment than many seemingly confident leaders. Once I stopped viewing my caution as weakness, I started leveraging it strategically.

Sensitivity Enhances Awareness

Turbulent types notice subtle social cues that assertive types miss. They detect when team dynamics shift, when clients harbor unspoken concerns, or when projects veer off course before problems become obvious.

This heightened awareness becomes problematic when it triggers excessive self-monitoring. You start analyzing every interaction, questioning if colleagues judge you, worrying about perceived slights. The sensitivity that could be an asset becomes a burden.

Redirect this awareness outward. Use your perceptiveness to understand others’ needs, anticipate challenges, and build stronger relationships. When you catch yourself spiraling into self-focused anxiety, shift attention to what you’re observing about the situation or other people.

Practical Strategies for Developing Assertive Qualities

Transformation requires deliberate practice in specific areas where turbulent and assertive types differ most significantly. Focus on behaviors you can control rather than trying to manufacture feelings you don’t have.

Master Decisive Action Despite Uncertainty

Assertive individuals act confidently even when lacking complete information. Turbulent types wait for certainty that never arrives. Learning to move forward with calculated risk represents one of the most valuable shifts you can make. This challenge becomes particularly difficult when you believe common misconceptions about types that suggest your traits are fixed limitations rather than flexible patterns.

Start small. Set a deadline for decisions that normally trigger analysis paralysis. Choose a restaurant within three minutes, commit to a purchase after 15 minutes of research, or send an email after one revision. Track outcomes to build evidence that imperfect action often works fine.

For higher-stakes decisions, define your decision criteria upfront. List the three most important factors, gather information on those specific points, then choose. This prevents the endless information gathering that turbulent types use to avoid commitment.

During major account pitches, I established strict preparation limits for my team. We’d research the client thoroughly, develop our strategy, and create our presentation. Then we’d stop. No last-minute overhauls, no 3 AM anxiety sessions. This forced acceptance of uncertainty actually improved our performance because we entered meetings fresh and confident in our thorough preparation.

Develop Stress Resilience Through Exposure

According to the 16 Personalities research on turbulent traits, these individuals find it significantly harder to prevent stressful events from affecting them negatively. Building resilience requires gradual exposure to manageable stress, not avoidance.

Identify situations that trigger anxiety but aren’t genuinely dangerous. Public speaking, difficult conversations, social events, or leadership visibility might fall into this category. Schedule regular exposure to one of these situations in low-stakes environments.

Join a speaking group where mistakes carry no consequences. Practice boundary-setting with sales calls before trying it with your boss. The repeated exposure builds confidence that you can handle discomfort without catastrophe.

Notice I’m not suggesting you become someone who enjoys stress or feels no anxiety. Assertive types still experience stress. They simply recover faster and trust their ability to handle challenges. You’re building that same trust through experience.

Reframe Perfectionism Into Excellence

Perfectionism paralyzes turbulent types by creating impossible standards. Excellence pursues high quality outcomes within realistic constraints. The distinction matters enormously for your mental health and effectiveness.

A study examining assertiveness and self-esteem found that individuals who learned to set realistic standards experienced significant reductions in anxiety compared to those who maintained perfectionistic thinking patterns.

Define “good enough” before starting projects. What outcomes truly matter? What level of polish does the situation require? A client presentation demands higher standards than an internal team update. Adjust your effort accordingly instead of treating everything as equally critical. Learning to voice these boundaries clearly helps address common communication challenges that turbulent types often internalize rather than express.

Set time limits that force closure. Allocate two hours for the report, 45 minutes for the email, or one week for the proposal. When time expires, you ship what you have. This constraint forces you to prioritize what actually matters instead of polishing every detail.

The advertising industry operates on brutal deadlines. Creative work could always be refined further, but campaigns launch on schedule regardless. Learning to deliver excellent work within time constraints, rather than perfect work that arrives late, marked a crucial turning point in my ability to lead effectively.

Building Cognitive Frameworks That Support Assertiveness

Behavioral changes prove difficult to maintain without addressing underlying thought patterns. Turbulent individuals carry specific cognitive distortions that fuel anxiety and undermine confidence.

Challenge Catastrophic Thinking

Turbulent types excel at identifying everything that could go wrong. This talent becomes problematic when every risk feels equally catastrophic. Your brain treats missing a deadline the same as losing your job.

Practice realistic assessment by asking three questions about feared outcomes. First, how likely is this outcome actually? Second, if it happens, what are the actual consequences? Third, how could you handle those consequences?

Most scenarios you catastrophize are neither likely nor genuinely catastrophic. Your colleague probably won’t judge you harshly for one awkward comment. Your manager won’t fire you for a single mistake. Even if the worst happens, you possess more resilience than you credit yourself with.

This cognitive work formed the foundation of my transition from chronic anxiety to sustainable confidence. I started tracking my predictions versus reality. Ninety percent of the disasters I anticipated never materialized. The remaining ten percent were manageable. Accumulating this evidence gradually shifted my default assumptions.

Separate Worth From Performance

Many turbulent individuals link their self-worth directly to achievement and others’ approval. Every success confirms their value. Every setback threatens their identity. This creates tremendous psychological fragility, which is one of the ways people unintentionally undermine their potential.

Assertive types maintain stable self-regard independent of external validation. They want to succeed but don’t need success to feel worthy. This distinction provides resilience during inevitable failures and setbacks. Research examining self-efficacy and assertiveness connections demonstrates that individuals who separate their self-worth from performance outcomes experience significantly lower aggression and higher emotional stability.

Building this separation requires conscious practice. Notice when you catch yourself thinking “I’m worthless because I made a mistake” or “I’m only valuable if I achieve this goal.” Actively reframe these thoughts. Your worth as a person exists independently of any single performance or outcome.

This doesn’t mean you stop caring about results. It means you stop treating every outcome as evidence about your fundamental value as a human being. Success becomes something you pursue because you’re capable, not something you need to prove you’re acceptable.

Embrace Uncertainty As Standard

Turbulent personalities crave certainty and control. When situations feel ambiguous or unpredictable, anxiety spikes. Assertive types accept uncertainty as an inherent feature of life.

You can’t eliminate uncertainty from your existence. Projects will face unexpected challenges. Relationships will have ambiguous moments. Career paths will include unclear decisions. Fighting against this reality exhausts you without changing the fundamental nature of life.

Practice tolerating uncertainty in small doses. Notice when you’re seeking reassurance or trying to control uncontrollable elements. Instead of immediately acting to reduce the discomfort, sit with the feeling. Recognize that you can function effectively despite not knowing exactly how things will unfold.

Leading teams meant making decisions with incomplete information constantly. Client preferences shifted, market conditions changed, creative concepts tested poorly. Learning to act decisively despite uncertainty became non-negotiable. The anxiety never disappeared entirely, but I developed confidence in my ability to adapt as situations evolved.

Creating Environmental Support For Sustainable Change

Individual effort matters, but environmental factors significantly influence whether new behaviors stick. Structure your surroundings to make assertive choices easier and turbulent patterns harder.

Remove decision fatigue by establishing routines for recurring choices. Decide your morning routine once instead of daily. Create templates for common communications. Develop standard approaches for typical situations. This reserves mental energy for genuinely important decisions. Modern technology offers tools that reduce cognitive load and help structure decision-making processes more effectively.

Seek relationships with people who model assertive qualities you’re developing. Notice how they handle criticism, make decisions, or manage stress. Their behavior provides concrete examples beyond abstract concepts. Proximity to confident people helps normalize those behaviors. This becomes especially important for those managing overlapping patterns that affect self-perception, where multiple factors influence confidence development.

Equally important, limit exposure to relationships that reinforce your turbulent patterns. People who constantly seek reassurance encourage your people-pleasing tendencies. Chronic complainers amplify your negativity bias. Perfectionists validate your unrealistic standards.

You don’t need to abandon these relationships entirely. Recognize their influence and compensate accordingly. Spend more time with people who challenge you to grow rather than those who enable your anxious patterns.

Track specific metrics that indicate progress. How many decisions did you make this week without seeking extensive input? How quickly did you recover from setbacks? What percentage of your predictions about negative outcomes proved accurate?

Concrete data counters the turbulent tendency to dismiss improvement. You might feel like nothing’s changed, but records showing you made three difficult decisions without agonizing provide objective evidence of growth.

Maintaining Balance During The Transformation Process

Developing assertive qualities doesn’t require becoming a different person. The goal involves expanding your repertoire, not replacing your core identity.

Certain situations benefit from turbulent traits. Complex problems requiring thorough analysis, high-stakes decisions demanding careful consideration, or sensitive interpersonal situations needing attentiveness all reward the qualities turbulent types naturally possess.

Other situations demand assertive responses. Quick decisions under pressure, confident leadership during uncertainty, or boundary-setting with difficult people all require the qualities you’re developing.

Learn to recognize which approach each situation calls for. Don’t default to turbulent patterns when assertiveness serves you better. Don’t force assertive behavior when your careful nature would produce superior results.

The most effective leaders I’ve worked with possessed this flexibility. They could analyze complex strategic questions with thorough deliberation, then pivot to decisive action when circumstances demanded it. They maintained both modes and deployed each appropriately.

Expect the process to feel uncomfortable initially. Assertive behaviors will seem unnatural when you’re accustomed to turbulent patterns. Your brain will generate anxiety as you step outside familiar responses. This discomfort signals growth, not failure.

Celebrate incremental progress instead of demanding immediate transformation. Each small win builds evidence that change is possible. The executive who speaks up once in a meeting has made meaningful progress, even if they’re not yet comfortable leading entire discussions.

Remember that developing assertive qualities doesn’t eliminate your turbulent traits. Both dimensions will coexist within you. The difference lies in having choice about which to emphasize in any given situation. That expanded flexibility represents genuine growth, regardless of where you fall on the turbulent-assertive spectrum.

The transformation from predominantly turbulent to effectively assertive follows no fixed timeline. Some people experience noticeable shifts within months. Others require years of consistent practice. Your pace matters less than your direction. Every deliberate step toward greater confidence and emotional stability moves you forward, regardless of how quickly others might progress.

This transformation requires patience with yourself. You’re rewiring patterns established over decades. The turbulent qualities that sometimes limit you also drove many of your accomplishments. Honor what those traits have given you even as you develop their assertive counterparts. The most powerful version of yourself integrates both dimensions intentionally.

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About the Author

Keith Lacy is someone who has learned to embrace his true self later in life. With a background in marketing and a successful career in media and advertising, Keith has worked with some of the world’s biggest brands. As a senior leader in the industry, he has built a wealth of knowledge in marketing strategy. Now, he’s on a mission to educate people about the power of understanding traits and how this knowledge can reveal new levels of productivity, self-awareness, and success.