INFP First Dates: How to Share Your Soul Safely
Dating advice tells you to “be yourself” while simultaneously suggesting you perform enthusiasm you don’t feel. As an INFP, you…
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ESTP Boundaries: Why Action-Takers Actually Need Limits
The client wanted me to soften the message. Make it more palatable. Add some cushioning around the hard truth they…
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ENFP Boundaries: Why Dreamers Actually Need Hard Lines
The conversation had been going for twenty minutes, and I could see it happening in real time. My ENFP colleague…
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ENTJ Boundaries: Why Commanders Actually Need Rules
The conference room went silent after my response. Not hostile silent, just surprised. The marketing director had just suggested we…
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INFP Adaptability: How Your Type Handles Change
The conference call notification appeared on my screen during a company restructuring announcement. Most people in the virtual room were…
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INFP Assertiveness: Why Being Nice Actually Hurts You
The email sat in my drafts folder for three days. Five sentences explaining why I couldn’t take on another project….
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INFJ Assertiveness: Why Saying No Is Actually Caring
A colleague stopped by my desk on Friday afternoon. “Hey, can we meet Sunday night to prep for Monday’s presentation?”…
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INTJ Assertiveness: Why Being Right Doesn’t Win Arguments
The conference call had been dragging for forty minutes when the marketing director suggested we “circle back” to something we’d…
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Introverted Feeling (Fi): How It Actually Works
You know what decision is right before anyone explains why. You recognize authenticity instantly, detecting when someone performs emotions rather…
