ENFJ HSP: Why Helping Others Actually Exhausts You
A coaching client reached out after her third workplace breakdown in two years. Same pattern each time: she’d build an…
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ENFJ Friends: When Help Actually Pressures You
My colleague texted at 11 PM. Again. She wanted to “check in” about a minor work frustration I’d mentioned three…
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Married to ENFJ: When Care Actually Controls
Your spouse remembers your dental appointment before you do. They’ve planned your career trajectory. They know what you need before…
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ENFJ Partner: What Dating a Protagonist Really Means
Your ENFJ partner just organized a surprise dinner with six people you mentioned wanting to connect with. They remembered every…
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ENFJ Boss: Why Support Feels So Overwhelming
The email notification pinged at 7:42 PM. My ENFJ department head wanted to check in about my project deadline, but…
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ENFJ Paradoxes: Helpers Who Can’t Accept Help
She offered to cover my presentation when I lost my voice before a major client pitch. Stayed late to help…
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ENFJs: Why You Burn Out Helping Everyone (And How to Stop)
She cancelled her own specialist medical appointment to attend a client meeting she didn’t even need to be at. When…
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ENFJ Burnout Looks Different: 7 Warning Signs Helpers Miss
ENFJs don’t burn out by withdrawing. They burn out by giving until there’s nothing left, all while appearing perfectly fine…
