ESFJ Bipolar: How Mood Swings Really Hijack Helping
The phone showed twelve unread messages from the same person. Three hours earlier, I’d promised to help organize their event….
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ISFJ Enneagram 2: When Helping Becomes Self-Erasure
You’ve probably been told you’re “too nice” more times than you can count. People lean on you because they know…
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INFJ Enneagram 2: When Empathy Becomes Your Identity
Someone asks how you’re doing. You scan their face, voice tone, body language. Within seconds, you’ve cataloged what they need…
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Enneagram 2 Growth Path: From Average to Healthy
Picture yourself at a team dinner where everyone’s celebrating a major project win. While your colleagues order freely, you’re calculating…
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Enneagram 2 Under Stress: When Helpers Stop Helping
The email arrived at 11:47 PM. Another colleague needing help with a presentation. I’d already stayed late helping three other…
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Enneagram 2 at Work: Career Guide for The Helpers
My team gathered for our weekly check-in, and Sarah volunteered before anyone could ask. She’d already prepared notes on three…
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ENFJ Friends: When Help Actually Pressures You
My colleague texted at 11 PM. Again. She wanted to “check in” about a minor work frustration I’d mentioned three…
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ENFJ People-Pleasing: How to Actually Stop
The email sat in my drafts folder for three days. A simple “no” to a request that would cost me…
