INFJ Selfishness: Why Self-Care Isn’t Selfish
The phrase hit me during a leadership retreat fifteen years into my agency career. My director pulled me aside after…
The phrase hit me during a leadership retreat fifteen years into my agency career. My director pulled me aside after…
The accusation lands differently when you’re an INTP. Someone calls you selfish, and your first instinct isn’t defensiveness. It’s analysis….
The accusation lands differently when you’re an INTJ. Someone calls you selfish for declining yet another social obligation, and instead…
Twelve clients in one week. Trauma disclosures, grief sessions, a crisis call at lunch. By Friday, my ISFP colleague Sarah…
My inbox was overflowing. Three client emergencies, two team conflicts requiring mediation, and a close friend going through a divorce…
Your coworker mentions she had a rough morning, and suddenly you carry her frustration into your afternoon. A friend vents…
My calendar showed seventeen commitments for the week, and none of them were mine. A friend’s move, a colleague’s presentation…
Self-care for an INTJ isn’t bubble baths and meditation apps. After two decades in high-pressure agency environments, I watched INTJ…
The performance review took eleven minutes. My manager highlighted achievements, discussed quarterly goals, and wrapped with positive feedback. Professional. Efficient….